Living On The Up High, Not The Down Low is a book created in an effort to uplift the images and mindsets of good Black men in addition to empowering the relationships between both men and women. It brings direct attention to a wide variety of issues related to the alleged shortage of good Black men and teaches techniques that would allow people to have more success in recognizing and keeping those men. The book also explains the significance of the three most important keys to successful relationships being: Communication, Consideration, and Honesty, and how they each can be used together to promote positive interaction in any type of relationship.
How The Ratio Does Not Equal Simplicity for Black Men
There are several things a good man considers when he searches for a good woman, but the biggest concern is compatibility. Many women happen to make the mistake of placing commitment before compatibility, but a good, successful Black man knows that not to be the correct order of operation for a successful relationship.
The future is also important to the good, successful Black man. This is so because it is equally important that he remains able to match and share equal values with his prospective mate. Female to male ratios don't really mean much to him because there are only a select few women that he would be compatible with anyway. You will see that it is all just a numbers game if you do the math. Let's use Quincy for example.
Quincy is a career successful college graduate who owns a home and drives a nice car. After meeting ten Black, professional women within the past three weeks... (read more)